delete after reading

what we keep

• Account: your email, first name, birthday, gender, a hashed stand-in for the password, plus whatever you put under mine.
• Your threads and the short notes each contact keeps so she can pick up where you stopped.
• Two cookies: one for your session, one saying you passed the age check.
• Payments leave the sum and the transfer reference and nothing else. We don't take cards, so none reach us.
• Server logs of the usual sort, deleted after a short time.

who reads it

A language model reads each text so it can write her side, on our hardware or a supplier's hired for that one job, and an automatic safety screen reads it as well. Nobody sells your threads, and no advertiser gets a look.

counting visitors

A plain counter adds up visits and rough locations. It can't read your texts.

getting rid of it

Each thread has buttons for her notes, a copy and clearing. Closing the whole account takes a note from the address you joined with. Anything extra your country's law grants is yours on request.